DYING IN IRAQ: IT BRINGS IT ALL HOME - "Before, It Seemed So Abstract"

(11/04/2003)
Ernest Bucklew is shown with his wife, Barbara, and sons Justin and Joshua in this 2001 family photo. Bucklew was killed Sunday in a missile attack in Iraq

Last week a West Virginian lost his legs in Iraq. This week another lost his life.

The new mortuary at Dover Air Force Base in Delaware will receive the remains of the 16 US soldiers killed in a missile attack in Iraq this past weekend. The soldiers were killed when a Chinook helicopter was shot down.

Thirty-three-year-old Ernest Bucklew, was heading home for his mother's funeral in Pennsylvania, when he died in the crash.

Bucklew is the son of a West Virginia coal miner, originally from Reedsville in Preston County. He joined the Army in 1999.

He graduated West Preston County High School in 1988 and joined the Army Reserves and served as a cook with the 354th Ordnance unit out of Morgantown for several years.

Dover, Delaware was the site where thousands of flag draped caskets arrived during the Vietnam War, but so far the Bush administration has been reluctant about the photographing of the caskets, nor have they disclosed causalities on the other side or the numbers of American soldiers who are being injured in the war in Iraqi.

"They say there's a reason for everything, but I just can't find a reason for this," said Bucklew's uncle, Jack Smith of Point Marion, just across the state line in Pennsylvania.

Bucklew's wife, Barbara, wept as she spoke Monday of breaking the news to the couple's two children, Joshua, 8, and Justin, 4.

"My oldest one is just a little numb. He understands his nana and father passed away, but he hasn't talked about it. The youngest one just doesn't understand. He doesn't understand the concept of death right now," she said.

Bucklew had sent an e-mail to his family saying "this is a letter from hell."

"Personally, I see no use for the war," Smith said. "This country shouldn't be starting wars; we should be defending ourselves and others. I think all these boys should be sent home."

In one of the last e-mails Bucklew sent to his wife, he reminisced about times with his mother when he was a child. Mary Ellen Bucklew, 57, died Friday of an aneurysm while driving home from work.

"He said he couldn't sleep. He was thinking about her," Barbara Bucklew said. Bucklew is also survived by his father, Donald, a Vietnam veteran.

"It brings it all home," said a family member. "Before, it seemed so abstract.